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This is one of the most frequently asked questions I've gotten since running my YouTube channel—and honestly, I've been sitting on it for months, waiting for the right moment to finally write this post.

"Is Suho in love with Si-eun romantically or friendly?"

Director Yoo confirmed in a commentary interview that Suho is Si-eun's first love. Many fans immediately assumed: romantic.

But hold on.

Is that what the director meant? Is that what we saw? And does it even matter?

Let's dive in 🤿

— Jennie Lee

The Most Asked Question

"Could you make a video on explaining if 'is Suho in love with Sieun romantically or friendly?' because the director apparently confirmed that they're in love n fans immediately started to assume its romantic, so I'm wondering if you could do a video of your opinion about it!"

- A subscriber

I've gotten variations of this question dozens of times.

One rainbow-profile commenter even called me out: "🔗 This video talks for 7+ minutes while saying nothing."

Ouch 😂

I caught what rainbow-profile really meant: they wanted a direct romance definition. They felt like I was bush-beating.

But here's the thing: I wasn't avoiding the question to be annoying.

I was avoiding it because I genuinely believe the sophistication of this drama lies in its refusal to define these boys' emotions with adults' boring language.

Why I'm Not Labeling Them

Think about it.

Teenage boys—especially boys like Suho and Si-eun—don't sit around having feelings-talks.

They don't say: "I care about you" or "This is all for you."

They just... feel.

And they express those feelings through:

  • Actions (protecting each other)

  • Silences (understanding without words)

  • Wordplay (hiding sincerity behind jokes)

Weak Hero Class 1's direction honored that.

The show didn't force these characters into boxes they wouldn't naturally fit into.

And I have no intention of doing that either.

I'm not putting labels on the two protagonists to define them in boxes.

Because the moment you label it, you limit it.

The Commercial Brilliance

Okay, let me get real with you for a second.

This might make some people uncomfortable, but I'm gonna say it:

This is really my personal... taste, I guess?

If this drama had commercially marketed itself as full-on boys love, I probably wouldn't have fallen for it this hard.

(Don't misunderstand me—I have zero prejudice against genres that deal with boys love outright. It's just not my taste, you know what I'm saying?)

But here's what the production team did brilliantly:

I think, they found the middle ground.

The Undertone Bromance

Most viewers watching this drama will detect the undertone bromance.

It's there.

You'd have to be actively ignoring it not to feel it.

But the show never makes it explicit.

And among school action genres, youth stories, and works based on bromance chemistry that are loved for a long time and form fandoms, this is actually a pattern:

They don't deal with boys love themes outright, but they always hint at it as an undertone.

Why This Is Commercially Wise

Let me break it down:

If they leave it ambiguous:

  • Fans fill in those gaps → naturally forms fandoms

  • Creates buzz and longer-lasting memories

  • Everyone gets to see what they want to see

If they'd defined Suho and Si-eun as a couple:

  • The fun of fans spinning secondary imagination disappears

  • They lose the demographic that's resistant to boys love genres

  • The show becomes about their sexuality instead of about their bond

Totally makes sense, right?

So I think this work—the production team, actors, and director—maintained the right balance of bromance devices to immerse most audiences while telling the story they wanted to tell, instead of catering to specific audiences.

You feel me? 😌

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Multiple Lenses From My Subscribers

One of the things I love most about my comment section is the diversity of perspectives.

Different people bring different lenses.

And that's the beauty of this show.

It's like that viral dress—you know, the one that can look white, black, blue, or gold depending on the lighting and your preconceptions?

Director Yoo created that.

Let me share some of the most compelling lenses my subscribers have offered.

People Tend to Belittle Friendship Compared to Love

- Elaine

"Personally, I think that Si-eun and Suho have a truly genuine friendship and an intense connection that is important and deep enough to be considered a first miraculous kind of love... but I didn't see any sign that their mutual affection and admiration was actually a sexual attraction."

She continues:

"Perhaps it might become one some day but I suspect that they're both heterosexual and, at this point it doesn't really matter anyway because they are finding something in each other that is more important than a first romance, fling or sex."

More important than first romance.

Let that sink in.

What They Found in Each Other

"They have each found someone who accepts and admires and will fight to protect them... just for being... who they already are... with no other strings attached."

This is the part that hits hardest.

No conditions.

No performance.

No need to be different, better, or more acceptable.

Just: "I see you. I accept you. I will fight for you."

Elaine calls this "a totally amazing thing" that we shouldn't underestimate.

Why?

"Because neither of them has ever experienced it before. And it's life changing... especially for Si-eun but also for Suho."

The Shame of Belittling Friendship

Here's where Elaine drops the real wisdom:

Actually, I think it's a shame that people tend to belittle friendship and friends in comparison to romantic love interests and sexual partners.

- Elaine

She's right.

We do this constantly.

We have entire vocabulary systems that elevate romantic relationships:

  • "Are you guys just friends?"

  • "They're only friends"

  • "Friend-zoned"

As if friendship is the consolation prize.

But Elaine pushes back:

Because a real friend can be just as hard to come by as a 'true love' and... who else do we turn to when our life partners disappoint us or expect more than we can give?

- Elaine

Truth bomb: Some marriages end. Best friends remain.

We don't expect our friends to be everything to us all the time when it's easier to expect too much from a partner.

- Elaine

The Gift of No Demands

Si-eun and Suho are, so far, giving freely to one another. They have placed no restrictions or demands on each other as they would if they were a couple in a romantic relationship.

The Sigma Fellowship Lens

Another passionate subscriber, Asuka also introduced me to a concept that perfectly captures why Su-ho and Si-eun were always going to find each other:

Sigma fellowship.

I think he spots in Si-eun a kind of potential sigma fellowship, which eventually blossomed into something that broke millions of hearts worldwide.

- Asuka

Let me break this down.

Suho: The Effortless Sigma

Suho doesn't need or want a pack following.

He's not trying to be popular. He's not campaigning for respect.

He just... effortlessly dominated Byeoksan's hierarchy because of his charisma and his ability to enforce respect for his personal space.

People naturally gravitate toward him, but he doesn't need them.

That's sigma energy.

Si-eun: The Vulnerable Sigma

Si-eun is also a sigma, but in a different way.

He doesn't want a pack following either. He's perfectly content being alone.

But unlike Suho, Si-eun is affection-starved. He really needs true friends, even if he doesn't know how to ask for them.

His vulnerabilities make him a target:

  • He looks like a harmless potato (Asuka's words, and I'm stealing them forever 😂)

  • He's poorly physically conditioned

  • His brain makes other boys jealous

  • He's unapologetically blunt (remember how he "thanked" Go-tak when they first met? )

So he gets picked on, unlike Su-ho.

But here's the key: Sigma does not mean invincible.

What Suho Saw

When Suho looked at Si-eun, he didn't see a follower.

He didn't see competition.

He saw potential sigma fellowship.

Someone who gets it without words.

Someone who doesn't need the pack either.

An equal.

The Beomseok Factor

And this is why—even in an alternate universe where the incident never happened and they carried on paddling happily as a trio in a canoe—Suho could never be as close to Beomseok as he is to Si-eun.

Because Beomseok wants to be an alpha.

That's a fundamental difference in nature.

Beomseok needs validation. He needs the pack to recognise him.

Suho and Si-eun? They don't need any of that.

And that's why their bond is so rare.

The 전우애 (Comrade Love) Lens

Now we get to my favorite part.

I introduced Asuka to the Korean concept of 전우애 (jeon-u-ae) — comrade love.

And here's the kicker:

The word itself already contains 애/愛 (love).

It's not "comrade friendship."

It's not "comrade bond."

It's comrade LOVE.

True Friendship Always Has True Love

Let's talk about the scene where they restrain Gilsu together.

This is 전우애 in action.

A bruised-up Suho, dehydrated and still concussed from a bat to the head, looks like he's about to lose his first fight.

Then a desperate Si-eun protects Suho with a belt and an attitude that screams: "Don't touch him, you bastard."

One loving brick to the knee.

One romantic kick to the face.

And the two high schoolers have subdued their local gang lord.

You're Really Psycho

And then they exchange words so precious, they echo in Si-eun's warmest dream:

"You're really psycho (thorai)."

But the way Su-ho delivers it?

It sounds like: "I can't stand how much I love you."

This is 전우애.

This is comradeship.

This is Su-ho's love confession to Si-eun.

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Actions Speak Louder

Some couples pronounce affection like hastily written Christmas cards.

Even when they're together, their minds are lost in their own little separate phone-worlds.

But Si-eun and Su-ho's actions speak louder than words.

And their words mean more than what they say.

Asuka put it perfectly:

"I think… they are saying 'I love you' all the time."

The Hospital Scene: When "미안해" Sounds Like "사랑해"

Let's talk about what I consider the most admirable wordplay in the entire series.

The final scene. The yellow hospital light sequence.

The Exchange

Si-eun: "미안해" (mianhae / Sorry)

Suho: "나도" (nado / Me too)

What I Hear

When Si-eun suddenly says "미안해" (mianhae)...

I hear "사랑해" (saranghae / I love you).

I feel like, two heterosexual boys, post-tragedy, using wordplay to hide sincerity—as teenage boys do.

The Linguistic Connection

Both "미안해" (mianhae) and "사랑해" (saranghae) end with the action verb "해" (hae).

The sounds are close enough that your brain can almost hear them as the same thing.

Especially in that moment.

Especially with that lighting.

Especially with Suho's faint smile.

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I imagine,

Si-eun actually said: "I love you."

And Su-ho's faint smile with "나도" (me too) was the automatic response.

Where I Actually Land

Okay, so after all of this—after all the lenses, all the viewings, all the subscriber discussions—where do I actually land?

Through My Personal Lens:

I also think Suho is Si-eun's first love.

I don't think that emotion can be explained any other way.

Though defining it isn't the point.

To my eyes, Suho was hetero.

Also, Suho is attracted to "strong mental will."

When he praises Yeong-i, he notes her wildness and "guts"—qualities he says are supposedly rare in girls.

He spots that same quality in Si-eun.

That's what draws him in.

It's not about gender. It's about strength of character.

Is It BL?

Here's my take:

True BL would've made sexuality central.

This drama consciously excluded that.

It's not about coming out. It's not about sexual discovery. It's not about navigating a same-sex relationship in a heteronormative world.

Those are the themes that define BL as a genre.

Weak Hero Class 1 isn't doing that.

But Did They Share Love?

Absolutely.

If That's Not Love, What Is?

Suho was attracted to Si-eun's strong mental will.

They shared 전우애—comrade love.

They said "I love you" all the time, just not in those words.

They found sigma fellowship in each other.

They held each other so precious that they would bleed in each other's place.

If that's not love, what is?

Pictional Arc

Speaking of different perspectives...

Asuka and I started discussing whether the canoe trio (Suho/Si-eun/Beomseok) could realistically maintain their friendship as adults post-coma.

That conversation evolved into a mid-length fictional arc series 😂

In reality, different social classes make it unlikely they'd cross paths again.

But in our fictional deluluverse, working-class Mr. Ahn visits Dr. Yeon's clinic without an appointment 😂

What's Actually In There

Our arc isn't just fiction—it includes deep character analysis and philosophical themes we couldn't fit into YouTube videos.

Started as a joke between Asuka and me, but it's grown into deep Weak Hero character analysis plus post-coma speculation.

I'm the bricklayer adding local flavor while Asuka simmers the fictional arc soup.

The blog's getting renovated for easier reading—stay tuned.

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